Signs from Spirit come in all forms, not just the ones we think we want or have preferences for like feathers and rainbows. They might come to us through (unwanted) changes in our relationships.
Let's say you find yourself unexpectedly alone, and you're just not comfortable with that. What up?
I can tell you that you're Loved, Adored, and always Guided, but the loneliness doesn't seem to make sense 'here on the ground', does it? This is something you've manifested for yourself? Why?
It's an opportunity to fill the vast (space/) Universe with your Presence. Unless you know how vastly empty that space is, you have no idea what it's capable of holding. Hmmm... not feeling better yet?
What are your obstacles? Your need for outside approval, for one; the conditioned habit of having someone outside yourself validate your existence.
Your physical solitude is a Divine choice. In making your peace with your fear of the emptiness, you're setting yourself up to come to Know your own Light in such a way that you'll be prepared to fill any darkness.
How to get there? Try to appreciate this time for what it is: a time of not feeling like your 'normal' self.
If you'd have stayed as you were [past tense, since you're in 'transformation mode' already], you'd have been separating yourself from who you're becoming. Hey, don't take it from me. Take it from Tony Robbins, if that works better for you. He's probably one of the hugest proponents of taking people out of their comfort zones as a means of helping them change their patterns and - ultimately - moving them forward.
Even if you've just ended a 'good' relationship, you've in effect taken yourself out of yours; your comfort zone, I mean. We come to hold beliefs about who we are based on the actions and reactions of others around us.
In effect, it can feel as though a part of you is gone. Well, it is, and it isn't. Every relationship we're in reflects something about ourselves. This is about replacing that other person with someone who has something even better to offer you.
(I imagine that those of you who've had great partners to this point and are confused about why you've amicably separated [it's happening to many of us] are saying, "Wha'?!")
The next person to come along isn't someone outside of yourself. The person who'll be that for you - the only person who can - is You. You could say that you're replacing your old self with an upgrade.
Even if you can say that other person has been brilliantly good for you,/your growth to this point, staying with them would perpetuate perspectives about yourself that will hold you where you are. By staying with them, you'd have been consigning yourself to limitation. And if you've been with someone who hasn't been brilliantly good for you, hey, even better - it makes it that much easier to realise /accept it's an aspect of yourself you don't need any longer!
Make the most of this time of self-contemplation, and you'll inevitably find things will soon return to 'normal' (a new one, mind you).
Where to go from here? Shifts and adjustments are inevitably happening. Puzzle pieces are falling into place (the operative word being 'falling', as that's how effortless it can be).
Then,
...Receiving.
You won't have to actively search or strive for ('it'); everything will come to you. Because you'll be more aware of your own Light, you'll start receiving different people and relationships to you, energy exchanges that better resonate with who (and what) you're coming to realise yourself to Be.
The world - in fact, the Universe - needs you. In effect, you're recruiting yourself as its leader. Consider whatever pains of apparent separation you're feeling 'birth pains'.
In the grandest sense of it, you are the creator, creating yourself. Taking the liberty of speaking on behalf of your own Heart (the Überverse itself), I say with all sincerity: you're a Joy and a Blessing!
Big Medicine Love to YOU
~ Black Feather
(In the past,) I've never been a fan of 'blanket' or 'broadcast' readings, where someone publishes a reading that's intended for masses of people. Generally, I feel that they're not specific enough to meet the individual needs of whomever might be reading it. But that doesn't give Spirit or the person viewing it (guess who?) much credit does it? Consider this an apology to You, first and foremost, and to Spirit, for me holding back on making contributions like this before.
While this actually started out as a private reading I did for someone, we agreed that I should post it here to make it accessible to others, as an assist to raising the consciousness of the planet, and to help with Your ascension!
It contains a description of imagery that will create an antidote frequency, to help clear up a vibrational pattern that has been limiting many of us. To give you some idea of what that means (if you haven't already read it,) here's a link to an earlier post that'll describe what an antidote- or cancellation-frequency is: http://blackfeathermedicine.blogspot.pt/2013/08/life-is-music-but-what-if-your-theme_13.html
What is this particular antidote frequency intended to counteract?
...difficulty meditating or fully relaxing /anxiety ...an inability to deeply connect with your guides and angels ...difficulty in valuing or getting the most out of 'alone' time.
How did this issue /situation manifest?
...forgetting your Angelic self and that you're surrounded by Angelic presences ...difficulty appreciating yourself as one (/an Angelic being).
What's been the influence that's precipitated this situation?
...feeling as though it's only connection to another physical person that makes you complete, that someone else can provide you with (or is) the answer to your dreams ...feeling as though your needs will not be met except by another person or unless you're in a relationship with another person [regardless of whether you're presently in a relationship or not].
What are the words /images that will create the desired cancellation /antidote frequency?
[If you'd rather hear the script in audio format, request it by email, and I'll send it to you (I'd appreciate a small donation in exchange, but I'll leave that to your discretion). Otherwise, I'd recommend making a recording of it using your own voice, and then listening to it with eyes closed to help you visualize. All that said, simply reading the words themselves will still be effective for the majority of people that choose to participate. In whatever way you're guided to experience it, Know and Trust that that's what your soul needs.]
Here's a description of the imagery as it was shown to me:
monkey /dog (nose) face
an energy thought bubble of wavy lines coming from it
(In it,)
...a bone-shaped rawhide chew-toy turning the page
Interestingly, Monkey (as a totem) is a reassurance that - regardless of whatever minor disturbances might seem to happen - 'everything's going to be alright'.
Dog is a devoted companion, but in its contrary medicine, can represent an unhealthy loyalty or reliance on another /others.
Your nose is connected to your intuition, and being able to discern for yourself 'what smells good to you or what smells bad to you'. In other words, you can trust yourself and what you Know, rather than relying on the need to follow where someone else's nose is leading them (not only are they leading the both of you, but guess what'll be right in front of your nose? That's right; you don't get to know as much about what's ahead as much as you do about the 'dog' in front of you. "Nice bum, chum! Where 'ya from?!" That said, dogs do learn an immense amount of information about other dogs that way! Hahahaha! Don't think I'm laughing at you, I'm mostly laughing because I'm taking this medicine to heart myself!
Perhaps I should clarify that I'm not for one moment suggesting that everyone should be forever single or that relationships aren't valuable. There are Treasures to be had that our relationships have and will continue to prepare us for. While I haven't looked into exactly what you'll find on your 'next page', I hope you're as excited about what's there as I am!
Where to go from there /here?
You've got Good things coming to you! That's where to go from here!
Big Medicine Love to You
Black Feather
p.s. as I mentioned at the outset, this is a 'general' reading. After I originally did the vision quest for the imagery for the person this antidote-frequency was intended for, I realised that - with what I've been experiencing in my own lifedream recently - what was revealed would be immensely helpful to me as well (and it has been). When I took a second look, additional images were tacked onto the first ones that were specifically fine-tuned to my own personal energies. If you'd like a more detailed antidote-frequency /reading for yourself, you can access it using the link that follows. While I have no doubt that the one that's presented above will still be of benefit to you, if you're guided to follow through on it, I suggest that it's (and You are) Worth a Look!
What?
Why?
So they can communicate with you easier.
If you think masturbation is simply an animalistic, self-centred pleasure, think again. Sex, especially when ('done'? 'performed'?) experienced by yourself opens you to your Guardian Angel's messages.
One of the ways it does that is by stilling the chatter in your mind. Let's face it, as you're having an orgasm, you're not exactly capable of thinking about anything else, are you? Whether male or female, we all get caught up in things that concern us; we're predisposed to preoccupy ourselves with things we feel we have to 'do'. Masturbation can automatically bring us into balance - it opens us to our capacity for Receiving as much as our propensity towards giving /'doing'.
(Sex in general) helps us to enjoy and be in the 'Now' moment. There's the blissful emotional and physical enjoyment of it (at least, I sincerely hope it's that way for you), but there's also a bonus, in that it balances out our energy such that we're better enabled to give to the world in a much more grounded and centred way.
Sexual energy is a powerful expression of our creative force. Your physical body is a medium. Orgasm activates your chakras, your lower ones especially, your creative and manifesting centres. Allowing your sexual energy to flow causes your creative energy to flow. It connects us to our own Divinity in the sense that it strengthens our intimate connection to the energetic Universe in a profoundly powerful way.
If your third eye is somewhat open to begin with, clearing out your energy system through orgasm can stimulate greater clarity in that respect. For others though, it's the tantric stimulation of the chakras that help facilitate communication. Through empowering this connection, you make it easier for messages to manifest in (what you perceive as being) your physical surroundings.
Following an orgasm, keep your awareness open for signs and synchronicities, in whatever way your guides might communicate to you. Whether it's via a poster, a radio conversation you overhear, a found object, a cloud formation; whatever it is, keep your awareness open for messages from your Guardian Angel, both immediately after an orgasm and for the next day or two.
If you're experiencing your orgasm through sharing sex with a partner rather than alone and you intend to check in immediately afterwards to see if you're aware of any Divine Guidance, maybe let your partner know ahead of time that you might seem a bit 'distant' afterwards. I suppose it would hurt for you to tell them they're helping you connect to angels!
It came to mind that some of you might also have had the experience of connecting to specific spirits tantrically (in a way that feels very physical). With the practice of orgasm for receiving messages in mind, I posed the question, "Are there any dangers associated with this method of receiving communications?"
As puzzling as what came was to me at first, I trust what messages I'm given. I was assuming beforehand that I'd receive something about making sure your messages are actually from your Guardian Angel, and not from some other entity trying to take advantage of your juicy energy, but what I was guided to communicate as a more pertinent danger is: "working too hard".
On the one hand, I take it to mean that working to hard will kill you much faster than enjoying (safe) sex will! Hahaha! But also, 'don't try too hard'. Allow answers to come to you, rather than chase after them. It's kind of the whole point of the method.
I was also provided with an astral vision, to go along with what I've been guided to write about here:
white collar
(becomes) origami bird /wings
In other words, if you need a way to relax from your 'work' (or whatever it is that gets you fired up), you could try origami, but sex will give you wings!
And hey, if it's possible this can help develop your intuitive gifts, is it going to hurt to try?
If you have an orgasm and still find yourself frustrated (in receiving messages, I mean), I'd be more than happy to help (my reception works regardless): Meet Your Guardian Angel
Big Medicine Love to You
~ Black Feather
